Loved the details! I felt so good reading this, thank youu. I am almost the same age as you, and I think of this a lot. Some think I'm not ambitious enough, but I really want to do it all. I want to build my career but also a family. I am a woman, and I really love the fact that I am. I want motherhood!
I was talking with my girls today itself, about pregnancy and babies, we discussed how motherhood is often celebrated, worshipped and revered. But all of the pressure falls on the mother thanks to the toxic glorification of it. What we need in today's world is gentle fatherhood that blends perfectly with motherhood. Both contribute to the healthy development of a child in its own ways, to make the child adept in honing both the masculine and feminine traits. To embrace it's own gender and qualities with love, and empathize with the opposite one. This piece really related to that thought process and reflected that fatherhood is scared and important too, in its own way ofcourse.
Great post 🙏 At 37 I've had some chances to become a dad in the past, and I wish I had. It wouldn't have been perfect by any means, but it would have brought a unique kind of joy that has always been missing. I don't say this out of regret, as there's still time, but as men we sometimes dull that feeling to pretend it doesn't exist. But it does exist and it always will. So if you get the chance, however imperfect the situation, embrace it.
This is soft and this is real. I could picture everything as I absorbed this piece.
You'll make an awesome father and partner some day!
ah , thank you so much delight!
Loved the details! I felt so good reading this, thank youu. I am almost the same age as you, and I think of this a lot. Some think I'm not ambitious enough, but I really want to do it all. I want to build my career but also a family. I am a woman, and I really love the fact that I am. I want motherhood!
I was talking with my girls today itself, about pregnancy and babies, we discussed how motherhood is often celebrated, worshipped and revered. But all of the pressure falls on the mother thanks to the toxic glorification of it. What we need in today's world is gentle fatherhood that blends perfectly with motherhood. Both contribute to the healthy development of a child in its own ways, to make the child adept in honing both the masculine and feminine traits. To embrace it's own gender and qualities with love, and empathize with the opposite one. This piece really related to that thought process and reflected that fatherhood is scared and important too, in its own way ofcourse.
I don't know if this caught me in an odd day but I am in fact crying. This is so beautiful, thanks Gor
i hope you are feeling better after crying? we are here for you. thank you so much for reading the piece
may God give everything you've ever wanted <3
ahh, you too. you too
Sometimes it feels like you are a fictional character 🫢(that was a compliment btw)
what do you mean, sometimes, i am a fictional character
KNEW IT
busted
Absolutely beautiful 😍
Honestly felt this post. Thank you for sharing!
Great post 🙏 At 37 I've had some chances to become a dad in the past, and I wish I had. It wouldn't have been perfect by any means, but it would have brought a unique kind of joy that has always been missing. I don't say this out of regret, as there's still time, but as men we sometimes dull that feeling to pretend it doesn't exist. But it does exist and it always will. So if you get the chance, however imperfect the situation, embrace it.
this was so beautiful to read. i enjoyed every second. it is gentle and it is real, thank you for sharing
I'm longing to be a father but due to genetic issues it seems unlikely. The pain is indescribable.
ahh, i am so sorry to hear that, i hope you find a way around 🫶🏻
this was beautifulll and amazingly written, oh my goshhh- i loved it smm! <333
THANK YOU FOR READING IT
Mannnn thsi is so beautiful, was on my lunch break and to have opened this. Nothing less than a blessing. 🩷
thank you so much
I love it.. Beautiful
You will be amazing father i can bet for that'
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not know why and how to describe but reading this just feel like it makes my day